Once upon a time, there was a little girl who wished with all her might to be good enough to keep, to fight for. And time and time again, she almost was - but never quite ( Read more... )

I know, I never update this thing. Sorry, just there never seems to be any reason. And I forgot my Dreamwidth password/lost access to my old gmail, so yeah, just here ( Read more... )

I feel so much better since I disabled my OK Cupid account earlier today. I seriously couldn't deal with the stupid. If I wanted to deal with that misogyny and sexism on a daily basis, I'd just try and talk to certain hockey fans. And the one guy I didn't completely hate or loathe, turned around and blamed me for wanting to find friends first on ( Read more... )

I am overworked and underpaid ( Read more... )

I had a thought, it was rather scary. It was an epiphany about my lack of being, well, normal as it were. I read a book, oddly enough, and suddenly I had this amazing clarity. I knew. And I understood. And now I need a name ( Read more... )

Parents, you will be glad to know that kids can't love more than one parent at a time. According to my godmom's way of thinking anyway. I wanted to move closer to my bio mom, in case I need to leave and get to school and not be late but can't drop off the puppy at godmom's. That way, I have a backup, or if something happens and I'm forced to be ( Read more... )

I found tofty's post on metafandom, well, I had to explain some things to new people or, old people, or anyone who missed this years ago...

"Silence is not complicity, goddamn it. Silence is just silence. And if you think otherwise, fuck you. Seriously." - Tofty.

( WARNING: TRIGGERS FOR SEXUAL ASSAULT AND RAPE. REPEAT: SEXUAL ASSAULT AND RAPE. )